Dating Senior Singles: Manual For Younger Women
Dating older men can be a challenge, but at the same very rewarding. There are some things about dating an older guy that you should take into consideration.
Many women are interested in dating senior singles. They are mature, they don’t play games and you always know where you stand. If you are going out with a silver fox, here are some tips for you.
Learn from him
He has years and years more experience than you do. Listen to his advice, he knows what he is talking about.
Make sure you are not a trophy
You will always be his younger, hotter girlfriend, no matter how old you get. This has its advantages. Just make sure he isn’t using you as a trophy girlfriend. Be careful about older guys who want to be with you just to get into your pants because you are fresh meat. You don’t have to rule out all older guys, you just have to choose wisely.
Enjoy the chivalry
He is from another era when men opened the door and kissed ladies on their hand. Most girls are disappointed that men don’t do this anymore. But hey, you are the lucky one. Feel free to be pampered and feel like a lady.
Don’t pretend you are something you are not
Yes, he is older than you but that doesn’t mean that you should pretend to be mature when you’re not, and the other way around. Just because he is dating a younger woman you don’t have to pretend to be immature when you’re not.
There is a generation gap
He will never get your references to specific scenes from Friends or some other show. However, dating mature singles has its charm. He can show you some movies that were popular when he was young, and he can introduce you to a whole other genre of music. Have you ever listened to records with your partner? It’s extremely romantic.
Don’t complain about getting older
When you are dating older men you shouldn’t complain to him about your age. You have your friends for that. Try not to push his buttons and make him feel older than he actually is. Calling your lover “grandpa” is the least sexy thing in the world.
Be careful about your nicknames
Nicknames are cool, but they shouldn’t remind you of your age gap. Something neutral like sweetie or honey will do just fine.
Men get better looking with age
And we absolutely hate them for it. Have you seen Sean Connery? That guy is like fine wine.
No more texting games
What should I text him back? When should I text him back? OMG, enough with that. Dating games are rather boring to a guy who’s probably had his fair share. He won’t wait three days, he will probably call you the very next day. It is like a breath of fresh air after all of those games.
Houston, can you hear me?
Hearing is one of our senses that diminishes over time. If he has a hearing problem don’t point it out.
