Top 6 Tips For Your BBW Hookup
All guys want to be with a girl who shares their interests. However, that girl should also have a pretty face, a stunning figure, long legs or big breasts. Many plus sized girls don’t get their chance just because they are overweight. It sounds wrong, but no one said dating life is easy and fair. Fortunately, there are guys who prefer their dates with a little more meat on their bones. If you are one of them, we have some tips prepared for you so you don’t mess up your date.
Dating a plus sized girl comes with its own set of rules. If you want to dazzle your BBW hookup, follow these guidelines.
Don’t focus on her appearance
As far as you are concerned, she can have two heads and four arms and you still shouldn’t mention it. Avoid talking about her appearance because it is a slippery slope. If you tell her that she is not a big girl, she will think that you are just full of it. Trust us, she is well aware of her looks. If you start talking about her weight, you can come off as a fetishist. So it is better to completely avoid conversation about her appearance. Focus on her personality instead. Ask her about her interests, her job, family, or life goals.
Big body, big IQ
Unfortunately, big girls can’t rely on their looks, so they focus on their brains. They are smart and funny women (OK, not all of them) so be sure you treat your date as such. She is not another dumb blonde who will look at you and absorb your every word. This girl knows how to think for herself, so be careful what you say to her.
Prepare some good jokes
Every girl likes a guy who can make her laugh. So if you need some conversation starters, prepare some jokes in advance. Although humor is considered very sexy, be sure you avoid fat or dirty jokes. Keep it neutral and light.
Dinner date
f you are in a restaurant don’t count her bites. If she orders a salad, be quiet. If she orders a fried whale, be quiet. Let the girl eat whatever she wants. In no circumstances ask her if she is sure about her order.
Show her some good time
It doesn’t matter whether you found your date on a big women dating site or through BBW personals. When you take her out, think of something original. Just because she is a big girl it doesn’t mean she can’t enjoy some outdoor activities. Ask her to go hiking or cycling with you. Even if she doesn’t want to, she will appreciate your gesture.
Introduce her to people who matter to you
You don’t have to go around the town with a megaphone yelling that she is your girl, but if you have been dating for some time you should introduce her to your closest friends. Then she will know that she can trust you.
