Online BBW Dating: The Do’s and Don’ts

Although online dating is a luxury in itself, that doesn’t necessarily mean that things will be handed to you on a silver platter if you register on a dating website. And if you’re really into plus size girls, there are a couple of things you definitely need to know before you start looking for them online. Without further ado, let’s get into the do’s and don’ts of scoring a date with a big beautiful woman on the internet.

Decide Whether It’s The Right Thing

Before you even start searching the web in hopes of getting into BBW dating, you need to think about whether this is what you really need. We’re not saying that it’s wrong (on the contrary), but people tend to start looking for big girls for all the wrong reasons without even realizing it. Aside from the extra pounds, there are a lot of things that surround big women: fetishes, fatphobia, prejudice, etc. If you’re absolutely certain that you’re into big chicks, good for you. However, if you’re having second thoughts, you might want to sit down with yourself and determine where does the real reason behind your need for a plus size girl lie.

Condescension Is Wrong

There shouldn’t really exist a need to tell anyone that being condescending is wrong, but we’ll mention it here just in case. Just as any other person doesn’t like talking to someone who acts superior, so do BBWs hate patronizing talk.

They’re fat and they know it – that’s why they’re on a BBW dating site, and you can bet they don’t need you to convince them that they “aren’t fat at all” or that you “can’t even tell that they’re overweight by looking at their photo.” Forget about that and just go with the flow.

Assume: Make an “Ass” out of “You” and “Me”

Even though online dating is much different from traditional dating, these two ways of finding a partner still have some similarities between them. Just like in regular, offline dating, assuming things about the person you’re talking to is never a good thing when it comes to online dating. This especially applies to BBWs, as there are a lot of things people think they already know about big girls. Some people think these women can’t find a partner no matter how hard they try, others believe that a BBW will have sex with anyone just to receive some attention.

Now, these things might be true about some of them, but even if they are, don’t jump to conclusions – instead, give your date a chance to show herself for what she really is, as a relationship cannot exist if two people don’t really know each other.

Honesty Above All Else

Last, but most definitely not least, is honesty. Whether you’re just setting up your online dating profile or chatting up a big girl on a dating website, you should always be truthful about yourself and your intentions.

While some of us seek a long-term relationship with a plus size woman, other would like nothing more than to hook up with one for a quick and hot fling. There’s nothing wrong with either of these, but make sure your goals are known before misleading someone and wasting both your and their time.

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